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How To Get the Big Love You Crave

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How To Get the Big Love You Crave

~ by Rebecca Hulse 

As we explored in part one, sustainable self-love is an act of self-giving (not self-fixing). With this radical approach to loving ourselves, we see that our own needs are always met. And that we fill ourselves up with the kindness and the love we seek to experience. Instead of replacing our need to connect with others, this approach creates the unseen energy that deeply connects us to the world, and everyone and thing in it. It’s the path to big self-love, big romantic love and a big global love — we desperately need to co-create.

It’s Starts with a List…

To get started, we made a list of desires we expected a partner to fulfill.

Only there’s one catch, I didn’t share before: what you believe is a desirefinding love that needs to be met from the outside world is actually a desire your soul wants to express – to you. It is a cornerstone of Radical Self-Love that the soul calls divine receptivity: To receive from the most unconditionally loving part of yourself and become a vessel for radical love in all its forms. And as this vessel, you will now become open to sharing (and receiving) divine love in a bigger way.

So go find that list, or complete it now.

Decoding Your Desires

Each desire gets translated into something for you to receive from your higher self; it becomes an expression of you in your own right.

Questions to ask as you review your list:

  • What does my soul wish to express from this outward desire?
  • What am I really looking for here?
  • What does this fulfilled desire feel like?
  • When have I felt this before?
  • How was I different then than now?

You will find that most of your answers are inwardly directed. For example one of my own desires for outside praise and recognition from my lover translates into the true need for self-recognition and praise that was lacking in my relationship with self.

I opened to receiving waves of love energy and messages of support from my higher self. And receiving these, inspired action (meaning in-spirit-action = action-in-spirit); my world opened up and I was communing with my higher self on a daily basis.

So much wisdom is now available to me. It’s like having a little angel on my shoulder saying: “You are so great at this. What a brilliant idea, Rebecca!”

Take the Next Step: Listen to Your Intuition

finding loveThis week’s step toward awakening is to review your list of cravings from your romantic relationships; go deep into your intuition to find the real message. Your soul will open up to you if you are willing to receive it.

If you have trouble tapping into your intuition notice what thoughts feel light and expansive – these are the truth. Write down these translations.

Please post your new awareness about your Soul Desires below!

Think About This

[tweet_dis]Instead of feeling like life just “happens” to you, you can start to take back the steering wheel again! [/tweet_dis]That means finding the courage to close your eyes for a moment–stop worrying about the bank balance, the to-do list, the constant barrage of demands on your time, long enough to catch a glimpse of where you’re trying to go. During the Virtual Lifestyle Design Retreat we’ll be taking inventory on these and more to help you free up your attention and get you moving forward and with confidence in the direction of your dreams.

Love and Sweet Gratitude,

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Meet Rebecca Hulse

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Rebecca Hulse is a Dream Life Coach, Professional Dancer, Laughter Yoga Facilitator & Enthusiast for all things expressive and expansive. She helps dreamers create their own realities & empowers women to care about themselves at rebeccahulse.com.