Do you feel EXTREME?: Utopian Ideals in a Modern World
Written by Fiona on June 14, 2010 – -By Fiona Hollis

Since joining the raw food community I’ve dealt with feelings of ‘extremism’ and not quite fitting in. It starts with food and nutrition, then radiates into morality, philosophy and lifestyle.
Once on the other side of the fence, I labeled raw foodists ‘extreme’ in their living, driven by a cacao fueled aspiration to be 100% raw. My 80% felt inferior – never mind the lows of winter months. I’d learned so much about food, and managed to heal my body – but where did I fit in to this raw community?
Judgment – a pointer to how we feel about ourselves
Whilst watching an interview with David ‘Avocado’ Wolfe talking about getting B12 from ants which crawl into his raw honey, I had an attack of ‘raw judgment’. A bubble of extreme outrage popped inside of me – this raw food guru who I gleaned so much information from was suddenly eating ants? This raised new questions. Does raw = vegetarian – if not vegan… Where do ants fit in? Is there some sort of raw class system? My fear of being lowly ranked clearly did not stop me from judging others. For a period of time, David ‘Avocado’ Wolfe was, David ‘Anteater’ Wolfe.
Whilst doing his first 30 days raw challenge, my fiancé would heckle, ‘Raw Hovis’, as I succumbed to a sandwich. I started looking at the Shazzies, Sarmas, and Karen Knowlers through different eyes, wondering if they were extreme in their discipline, and if they even remembered what a nacho tasted like?
Utopia
Recently I had ‘a moment’ of what felt like divine education. I was in the garden reflecting on my day, feeling so much gratitude to God for guiding and allowing me to create whatever it is I desire – regardless of how impossible it may have once felt. As I looked at the beautiful flowers in the sun parched earth – I marveled at how they survive such dry weather. Out of nowhere I saw a vision of how moisture is given to the plants at night. God designed our planet to work in perfect harmony with everything around it. The sunshine is given to the earth during the daytime when life is awake. When life rests in the evening the weather changes and rain falls at the most perfect time for its life giving qualities to be absorbed. God gave us the potential for extreme perfection in all that we do by way of love and life.

Plants and trees provide more than enough food and nutrition to sustain healthy bodies, and allow our souls to thrive. There is no need for a cafeteria in the garden of Eden. This utopia we all recognize, is a vision of what was intended at source, what our planet once was. All around us grow wild foods: herbs, plants, flowers designed to suit our every need. Mallow, elder, dandelions, berries, hops, grasses, cleavers, birch – the list is endless. Sadly Western culture does not promote raw idealism. Wild food foraging is often a secondary option to the supermarket or farmers market.
Displaced and unsatisfied we find ourselves craving the utopia that what was intended. As we awake to this primal knowing and allow our feelings to guide us, we start to see that there are new possibilities. Eating roast dinners, sandwiches, Mexican food, Indian food, haute cuisine are emotional instincts. Cooked food is what we’ve been brought up on, it comforts us. Suddenly choosing to eat raw in cold climates is not an obvious choice. However, this diet would be more accepted in hotter countries where fruits and nuts grow naturally. It’s our extreme desire to achieve our optimum vitality that can challenge other people.
Our version of reality
Way back when, through the pages of time, climate determined where we lived. People were indigenous and we ate according to our environment. Technology now heats our homes, fuels our cars and irrigates our barren land. Technology gives us international neighbors and global aspirations. We are able to unite in an unprecedented way, creating Facebook pages, twitter accounts, online events which serve to link us together by a common desire. People crave quality from their lives – raw goodness, not just illusions of goodness. These geographical human connections pave the way to increased expectation. “I prefer goji berries from the Himalayas rather than Canada… some mangoes from Thailand…” The sudden need to eat out of season foods with huge carbon footprints is pretty extreme, no?

The raw food community wants to connect to something. Many have a strong sense of morality and are predominantly vegan. In my vision, God gave us the gift of animals – provided to play perfect roles within the ecosystem and to teach us lessons of empathy and compassion and wonder. We were given the most exotic array of fruits, nuts and plants to eat. The clean bright flavors of raw food connect us to our planet, allowing us to feel why it is better to buy organic foods, you’re inner knowing steering you away from pesticides and chemicals that pollute the earth and our bodies. I now see raw foodists as extreme in their love for the planet and all life on it. Long live the extremists! (I have a hunch they will!)
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By sheryl miller on Jun 14, 2010
Hello Raw Food team,
This such inspiring speech, made me feel normal!
That it is O.K not follow the others to follow my own health guru!
Thanks for keeping me inspired and to do better for me and my family!
I wanted to share this post/website with people on Facebook I hope that was O.K??
Thanks
sheryl miller
canberra
Australia
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By Beata on Jun 14, 2010
thank you, that is very helpfull, as i find myself in a similar place of explaning and then asking how much do i share and how much can my 6 years old doughter understand in money and it`s place in our life and live`s of the people that we see daily, i would like to connect to your podcast, i have never listen to one before, but my girl want soooo much to be in the health gardian Club and eat great foods with other kids, and have her place in the healthy world helping. please let me know what is out there. all the best, Beata
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By Sasha on Jun 14, 2010
Beautifully said, thank you. I have played with veganism and raw foods for almost 20 years, and still struggle with the idea of this being extreme, and that I should somehow be striving for the Middle Road. I think that struggle simply comes with the territory of pioneering new ways. Thank you for the fresh inspiration!
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By flora on Jun 15, 2010
The Real Normal
You put it into words. Its actually about loving the world more deeply, the world and all the life on it. I am not totally vegan and part of it is a wrestling match with how ridiculously loving I get, compared to those around me. I just want to shout out to them, “aren’t you crazy with love at watching our children play together? Aren’t you bursting with the ache of gorgeous love at the unbelievable beauty of existence?” But I do not, because, they don’t feel it all to that extreme.
Thank you for reminding me that eating raw and the raw love that ensues (or maybe precedes the urge to go raw) is the real normal.
If there is more, like this note, then sign me up. I want on this list.
Warmly,
Flora
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By Joanne on Jun 15, 2010
Fiona, beautifully written.
When surrounded by ‘normal’ culture, it’s not easy being different, and feeling judged. But I take heart in thinking that what was once judged crazy can now be considered normal and everyday (flying in planes, for example!). I know we all have our own path and that everyone is where they are for a reason, but I like to think that I’m being a beacon of light for others, if they’re ready for it.
Thanks for such a beautiful and thoughful post. I’m so glad you’re a part of Raw Mom.
Love Jo
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By Carissa on Jun 16, 2010
Fiona –
I love what you say. I understand you.
I struggle with ‘balance’. My son had conventional ice cream the other day and was sick for a week… Ayurveda says that we need balance – to not be extreme in anything we do. But why is it that I need to constantly think about our food, be vigilant in what we consume, how we consume… how can I let go, if when I do, my son gets sick? Maybe there is a way to be balanced while being extreme? Maybe it is accepting others’ view and educating without judging and forcing our views on them? Maybe it is allowing ourselves to be relaxed while attaining excellence in what we believe in? Hmmm…. I think I am asking myself these questions.
I’d really love to know how others attain balance while being extreme.
Thanks Fiona!!
Carissa
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By Fiona on Jun 17, 2010
Sheryl, Thank you for your lovely words I am glad it touched you. Feel free to post the link on FB
Much Love, Fiona
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By Fiona on Jun 17, 2010
Hi Beata, Thanks for your reply. Are you signed up to our wisdom nuggets? You get great little tips and tricks – but also hear about what’s coming up on the site. There will be a listening post where you can listen to recorded answers to FAQs soon – plus a monthly call where you can ask your own questions. Stay tuned
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By Mary on Jun 19, 2010
Hi Fiona, Thank you for the inquiry. My husband and I were “Raw Foodists” for approx 7 yrs. The first 5 were outstanding, lost weight, felt better, no more Fibromyalgia, slepted very well, look 45 yr.s etc. During the past 2 yrs. I volunteered a great deal more than usual, at 65 yrs. old found myself getting tired, rundown. After a visit to a Dr. who said I was Anemic, and a Psychic/Nutritionalist, who suggested I eat some Salt-Free Turkey, fish and grass-fed beef once or twice a week, as well as Dr. Beiler’s soup: cooked zucchini, green beans & parsley, blended, (Dr. Beiler was Lucille Ball’s Dr.) I recovered nicely and feel phenomenal, still eat about 60% raw. I think it’s great for those who need a thorough clean-out, or haven’t been eating cooked food for years, like me. Husband is still mostly RAW & loving it!
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By Sarah on Aug 16, 2010
WE ARE PIONEERS, as my husband says. We aren’t raw yet, but our toddler is. Things just have to change, and we will become the normal ones.
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